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CHAPTER XIII
SOME INSTANCES OF THE FOLLY WHICH THE IGNORANCE OF WOMEN GENERATES; WITH
CONCLUDING REFLECTIONS ON THE MORAL IMPROVEMENT THAT A REVOLUTION IN FEMALE
MANNERS MIGHT NATURALLY BE EXPECTED TO PRODUCE
There are many follies in some degree peculiar to
women — sins against reason of commission as well as of omission — but all
flowing from ignorance or prejudice. I shall only point out such as appear to
be particularly injurious to their moral character. And in animadverting on
them, I wish especially to prove that the weakness of mind and body, which men
have endeavoured, impelled by various motives, to perpetuate, prevents their
discharging the peculiar duty of their sex; for when weakness of body will not
permit them to suckle their children, and weakness of mind makes them spoil
their tempers, is woman in a natural state? Section I One glaring instance of the weakness which proceeds
from ignorance first claims attention, and calls for severe reproof. In this
metropolis a number of lurking leeches infamously gain a subsistence by
practising on the credulity of women, pretending to cast nativities, to use the
technical phrase; and many females who, proud of their rank and fortune, look
down on the vulgar with sovereign contempt, show by this credulity that the
distinction is arbitrary, and that they have not sufficiently cultivated their
minds to rise above vulgar prejudices. Women, because they have not been led to
consider the knowledge of their duty as the one thing necessary to know, or to
live in the present moment by the discharge of it, are very anxious to peep
into futurity to learn what they have to expect to render life interesting, and
to break the vacuum of ignorance. I must be allowed to expostulate seriously with the
ladies who follow these idle inventions; for ladies, mistresses of families,
are not ashamed to drive in their own carriages to door of the cunning man.1
And if any of them should use this work, I entreat them to answer to their own
hearts the following questions, not forgetting that they are in presence of
God: Do you believe that there is but one God, and that He
is powerful, wise, and good? Do you believe that all things were created by Him,
and that all beings are dependent on Him? Do you rely on His wisdom, so conspicuous in His
works, and your own frame, and are you convinced that He has ordered things
which do not come under the cognisance of your senses, in the same perfect
harmony, to fulfil His designs? Do you acknowledge that the power of looking into
futurity, I seeing things that are not, as if they were, is an attribute of the
Creator? And should He, by an impression on the minds His creatures, think fit
to impart to them some event hid the shades of time yet unborn, to whom would
the secret revealed by immediate inspiration? The opinion of ages will answer
this question — to reverend old men, to people distinguished for eminent piety.
The oracles of old were thus delivered to the service
of the God who was supposed to inspire them. The glare of worldly pomp which
surrounded these impostors, the respect paid to them by artful politicians, who
knew how to avail themselves of this useful engine to bend the necks of the
strong under the dominion of the cunning, spread a sacred mysterious veil of
sanctity over their lies and abominations. Impressed by such solemn devotional
parade, a Greek or Roman lady might be excused, if she inquired of the oracle,
when she was anxious to pry into futurity, or inquire about some dubious event,
and her inquiries, however contrary to reason, could not be reckoned impious.
But can the professors of Christianity ward off that imputation? Can a Christian
suppose that the favourites of the Most High, the highly favoured, would be
obliged to lurk in disguise, and practise the most dishonest tricks to cheat
silly women out of the money, which the poor cry for in vain? Say not that such questions are an insult to common
sense, it is your own conduct, O ye foolish women! which throws an odium on
your sex. And these reflections should make you shudder at your thoughtlessness
and irrational devotion. For I do not suppose that all of you laid aside your
religion, such as it is, when you entered those mysterious dwellings. Yet, as I
have throughout supposed myself talking to ignorant women — for ignorant ye are
in the most emphatical sense of the word — it would be absurd to reason with
you on the egregious folly of desiring to know what the Supreme Wisdom has
concealed. Probably you would not understand me were I to
attempt to show you that it would be absolutely inconsistent with the grand
purpose of life, that of rendering human creatures wise and virtuous; and that,
were it sanctioned by God, it would disturb the order established in creation;
and if it be not sanctioned by God, do you expect to hear truth? Can events be
foretold, events which have not yet assumed a body to become subject to mortal
inspection, can they be foreseen by a vicious worldling, who pampers his
appetites by preying on the foolish ones? Perhaps, however, you devoutly believe in the devil,
and imagine, to shift the question, that he may assist his votaries; but, if
really respecting the power of such a being, an enemy to goodness and to God,
can you go to church after having been under such an obligation to him? From these delusions to those still more fashionable
deceptions, practised by the whole tribe of magnetisers, the transition is very
natural. With respect to them, it is equally proper to ask women a few
questions. Do you know anything of the construction of the human
frame? if not, it is proper that you should be told what every child ought to
know, that when its admirable economy has been disturbed by intemperance or
indolence, I speak not of violent disorders, but of chronical diseases, it must
be brought into a healthy state again, by slow degrees, and if the functions of
life have not been materially injured, regimen, another word for temperance,
air, exercise, and a few medicines, prescribed by persons who have studied the
human body, are the only human means, yet discovered, of recovering that
inestimable blessing health, that will bear investigation. Do you then believe that these magnetisers, who, by
hocus pocus tricks, pretend to work a miracle, are delegated by God, or
assisted by the solver of all these kind of difficulties — the devil? Do they, when they put to flight, as it is said,
disorders that have baffled the powers of medicine, work in conformity to the
light of reason? or, do they effect these wonderful cures by supernatural aid? By a communication, an adept may answer, with the
world of spirits. A noble privilege, it must be allowed. Some of the ancients mention
familiar demons, who guarded them from danger by kindly intimating, we cannot
guess in what manner, when any danger was nigh; or, pointed out what they ought
to undertake. Yet the men who laid claim to this privilege, out of the order of
nature, insisted that it was the reward, or consequence, of superior temperance
and piety. But the present workers of wonders are not raised above their
fellows by superior temperance or sanctity. They do not cure for the love of
God, but money. These are the priests of quackery, though it is true they have
not the convenient expedient of selling masses for souls in purgatory, or
churches where they can display crutches, and models of limbs made sound by a
touch or a word. I am not conversant with the technical terms, or
initiated into the arcana, therefore I may speak improperly; but it is clear
that men who will not conform to the law of reason, and earn a subsistence in
an honest way, by degrees, are very fortunate in becoming acquainted with such
obliging spirits. We cannot, indeed, give them credit for either great sagacity
or goodness, else they would have chosen more noble instruments, when they
wished to show themselves the benevolent friends of man. It is, however, little short of blasphemy to pretend
to such powers! From the whole tenor of the dispensations of
Providence, it appears evident to sober reason, that certain vices produce
certain effects; and can anyone so grossly insult the wisdom of God, as to
suppose that a miracle will be allowed to disturb His general laws, to restore
to health the intemperate and vicious, merely to enable them to pursue the same
course with impunity? Be whole, and sin no more, said Jesus. And, are greater
miracles to be performed by those who do not follow His footsteps, who healed
the body to reach the mind? The mentioning of the name of Christ, after such vile
impostors, may displease some of my readers — I respect their warmth; but let
them not forget that the followers of these delusions bear His name, and
profess to be the disciples of Him, who said, by their works we should know who
were the children of God or the servants of sin. I allow that it is easier to
touch the body of a saint, or to be magnetised, than to restrain our appetites
or govern our passions; but health of body or mind can only be recovered by
these means, or we make the Supreme Judge partial and revengeful. Is He a man that He should change, or punish out of
resentment? He — the common father, wounds but to heal, say reason, and our
irregularities producing certain consequences, we are forcibly shown the nature
of vice: that thus learning to know good from evil, by experience, we may hate
one and love the other, in proportion to the wisdom which we attain. The poison
contains the antidote; and we either reform our evil habits and cease to sin
against our own bodies, to use the forcible language of Scripture, or a
premature death, the punishment of sin, snaps the thread of life. Here an awful stop is put to our inquiries. But, why
should I conceal my sentiments? Considering the attributes of God, I believe
that whatever punishment may follow, will tend, like the anguish of disease, to
show the malignity of vice, for the purpose of reformation. Positive punishment
appears so contrary to the nature of God, discoverable in all His works, and in
our own reason, that I could sooner believe that the Deity paid no attention to
the conduct of men, than that He punished without the benevolent design of
reforming. To suppose only that an all-wise and powerful Being,
as good as He is great, should create a being foreseeing, that after fifty or
sixty years of feverish existence, it would be plunged into never-ending woe — is
blasphemy. On what will the worm feed that is never to die? on folly, on
ignorance, say ye — I should blush indignantly at drawing the natural
conclusion could I insert it, and wish to withdraw myself from the wing of my
God! On such a supposition, I speak with reverence, He would be a consuming
fire. We should wish, though vainly, to fly from His presence when fear
absorbed love, and darkness involved all His counsels! I know that many devout people boast of submitting to
the will of God blindly, as to an arbitrary sceptre or rod, on the same
principle as the Indians worship the devil. In other words, like people in the
common concerns of life, they homage to power, and cringe under the foot that
can crush them. Rational religion, on the contrary, is a submission to the will
of a being so perfectly wise, that all he wills must be directed by the proper
motive — must be reasonable. And, if thus we respect God, can we give credit to
mysterious insinuations, which insult His laws? can we believe, though it
should stare us in the face, that He would work a miracle to authorise
confusion by sanctioning an error? Yet we must either allow these impious
conclusions, or treat with contempt every promise to restore health to a
diseased body by supernatural means, or to foretell the incidents that can only
be foreseen by God. SECTION II Another instance of that feminine weakness of
character, often produced by a confined education, is a romantic twist of the
mind, which has been very properly termed sentimental. Women subjected by
ignorance to their sensations, and only taught to look for happiness in love,
refine on sensual feelings and adopt metaphysical notions respecting that
passion, which lead them shamefully to neglect the duties of life, and
frequently in the midst of these sublime refinements they plump into actual
vice. These are the women who are amused by the reveries of
the stupid novelists, who, knowing little of human nature, work up stale tales,
and describe meretricious scenes, all retailed in a sentimental jargon, which
equally tend to corrupt the taste, and draw the heart aside from its daily
duties. I do not mention the understanding, because never having been
exercised, its slumbering energies rest inactive, like the lurking particles of
fire which are supposed universally to pervade matter. Females, in fact, denied all political privileges,
and not allowed, as married women, excepting in criminal cases, a civil
existence, have their attention naturally drawn from the interest of the whole
community to that of the minute parts, though the private duty of any member of
society must be very imperfectly performed when not connected with the general
good. The mighty business of female life is to please, and restrained from
entering into more important concerns by political and civil oppression,
sentiments become events, and reflection deepens what it should, and would have
effaced, if the understanding had been allowed to take a wider range. But, confined to trifling employments, they naturally
imbibe opinions which the only kind of reading calculated to interest an
innocent frivolous mind inspires. Unable to grasp anything great, is it
surprising that they find the reading of history a very dry task, and
disquisitions addressed to the understanding intolerably tedious, and almost
unintelligible? Thus are they necessarily dependent on the novelist for
amusement. Yet, when I exclaim against novels, I mean when contrasted with
those works which exercise the understanding and regulate the imagination. For
any kind of reading I think better than leaving a blank still a blank, because
the mind must receive a degree of enlargement and obtain a little strength by a
slight exertion of its thinking powers; besides, even the productions that are
only addressed to the imagination, raise the reader a little above the gross
gratification of appetites, to which the mind has not given a shade of
delicacy. This observation is the result of experience; for I
have known several notable women, and one in particular, who was a very good
woman — as good as such a narrow mind would allow her to be, who took care that
her daughters (three in number) should never see a novel. As she was a woman of
fortune and fashion, they had various masters to attend them, and a sort of
menial governess to watch their footsteps. From their masters they learned how
tables, chairs, etc., were called in French and Italian; but as the few books
thrown in their way were far above their capacities, or devotional, they
neither acquired ideas nor sentiments, and passed their time, when not
compelled to repeat words, in dressing, quarrelling with each other, or
conversing with their maids by stealth, till they were brought into company as
marriageable. Their mother, a widow, was busy in the meantime in
keeping up her connections, as she termed a numerous acquaintance, lest her
girls should want a proper introduction into the great world. And these young
ladies, with minds vulgar in every sense of the word, and spoiled tempers,
entered life puffed up with notions of their own consequence, and looking down
with contempt on those who could not vie with them in dress and parade. With respect to love, Nature, or their Nurses, had
taken care to teach them the physical meaning of the word; and, as they had few
topics of conversation, and fewer refinements of sentiment, they expressed
their gross wishes not in very delicate phrases, when they spoke freely,
talking of matrimony. Could these girls have been injured by the perusal of
novels? I almost forgot a shade in the character of one of them; she affected a
simplicity bordering on folly, and with a simper would utter the most immodest
remarks and questions, the full meaning of which she had learned whilst
secluded from the world, and to speak in her mother's presence, who governed
with a hand; they were all educated, as she prided herself, in a most exemplary
manner, and read their chapters before breakfast, never touching a silly novel.
This only one instance; but I recollect many other
women not led by degrees to proper studies, and not permitted to choose for
themselves, have indeed been overgrown children; or have obtained, by mixing in
the world, a little of what is termed common sense; that is, a distinct manner
of seeing common occurrences, as they stand detached; but what deserves name of
intellect, the power of gaining, general or abstract, or even intermediate
ones, was out of the question. Their minds were quiescent, and when they were
not roused by sensible objects and employments of that kind, they were
spirited, would cry, or go to sleep. When, therefore, I advise my sex not to read such flimsy
works, it is to induce them to read something superior; for I coincide in
opinion with a sagacious man, who, having a daughter and niece under his care,
pursued a very different with each. The niece, who had considerable abilities, had,
before she left to his guardianship, been indulged in desultory reading. Her he
endeavoured to lead, and did lead to history and moral essays; but his
daughter, whom a fond weak mother had indulged, and who consequently was averse
to everything like fornication, he allowed to read novels; and used to justify
his conduct by saying, that if she ever attained a relish for reading them, he
should have some foundation to work upon; and that erroneous opinions were
better than none at all. In fact, the female mind has been so totally
neglected, that knowledge was only to be acquired from this muddy source, till
from reading novels some women of superior talents learned to despise them. The best method, I believe, that can be adopted to
correct a fondness for novels is to ridicule them: not indiscriminately, for
then it would have little effect; but, if a judicious person, with some turn
for humour, would read several to a young girl and point out both by tones, and
apt comparisons with pathetic incidents and heroic characters in history, how
foolishly and ridiculously they caricatured human nature, just opinions might
substituted instead of romantic sentiments. In one respect, however, the majority of both sexes
resemble, and equally show a want of taste and modesty. Ignorant women, forced
to be chaste to preserve their reputation, allow their imagination to revel in
the unnatural and meretricious scenes sketched by the novel writers of the day,
slighting as insipid the sober dignity, and matron graces of history,2
whilst men carry the same vitiated taste into life, and fly for amusement to
the wanton, from the unsophisticated charms of virtue, and the grave
respectability of sense. Besides, the reading of novels makes women, and
particularly ladies of fashion, very fond of using strong expressions and
superlatives in conversation; and, though the dissipated artificial life which
they lead prevents their cherishing any strong legitimate passion, the language
of passion in affected tones slips for ever from their glib tongues, and every
trifle produces those phosphoric bursts which only mimic in the dark the flame
of passion. SECTION III Ignorance and the mistaken cunning that nature
sharpens in weak heads as a principle of self-preservation, render women very
fond of dress, and produce all the vanity which such a fondness may naturally
be expected to generate, to the exclusion of emulation and magnanimity. I agree with Rousseau that the physical part of the
art of pleasing consists in ornaments, and for that very reason I should guard
girls against the contagious fondness for dress so common to weak women, that
they may not rest in the physical part. Yet, weak are the women who imagine
that they can long please without the aid of the mind, or, in other words,
without the moral art of pleasing. But the moral art, if it be not a
profanation to use the word art, when alluding to the grace which is an effect
of virtue, and not the motive of action, is never to be found with ignorance;
the sportiveness of innocence, so pleasing to refined libertines of both sexes,
is widely different in its essence from this superior gracefulness. A strong inclination for external ornaments ever
appears in barbarous states, only the men not the women adorn themselves; for
where women are allowed to be so far on a level with men, society has advanced,
at least, one step in civilisation. The attention to dress, therefore, which has been
thought a sexual propensity, I think natural to mankind. But I ought to express
myself with more precision. When the mind is not sufficiently opened to take
pleasure in reflection, the body will be adorned with sedulous care; and
ambition will appear in tattooing or painting it. So far is this first inclination carried, that even
the hellish yoke of slavery cannot stifle the savage desire of admiration which
the black heroes inherit from both their parents, for all the hardly earned
savings of a slave are commonly expended in a little tawdry finery. And I have
seldom known a good male or female servant that was not particularly fond of
dress. Their clothes were their riches; and, I argue from analogy, that the
fondness for dress, so extravagant in females, arises from the same cause — want
of cultivation of mind. When men meet they converse about business, politics,
or literature; but, says Swift, "how naturally do women apply their hands
to each other's lappets and ruffles." And very natural is it — for they
have not any business to interest them, have not a taste for literature, and
they find politics dry, because they have not acquired a love for mankind by
turning their thoughts to the grand pursuits that exalt the human race, and
promote general happiness. Besides, various are the paths to power and fame
which by accident or choice men pursue, and though they jostle against each
other, for men of the same profession are seldom friends, yet there is a much
greater number of their fellow-creatures with whom they never clash. But women
are very differently situated with respect to each other — for they are all
rivals. Before marriage it is their business to please men;
and after, with a few exceptions, they follow the same scene with all the
persevering pertinacity of instinct. Even virtuous women never forget their sex
in company, for they are for ever trying to make themselves agreeable. A female
beauty, and a male wit, appear to be equally anxious to draw the attention of
the company to themselves; and the animosity of contemporary wits is
proverbial. Is it then surprising, that when the sole ambition of
woman centres in beauty, and interest gives vanity additional force perpetual
rivalships should ensue? They are all running the same race, and would rise
above the virtue of mortals, if they did not view each other with a suspicious
and even envious eye. An immoderate fondness for dress, for pleasure, and
for sway, are the passions of savages; the passions that occupy those
uncivilised beings who have not yet extended the dominion of the mind, or even
learned to think with the energy necessary to concatenate that abstract train
of thought which produces principles. And that women from their education and
the present state of civilised life, are in the same condition, cannot, I think
be controverted. To laugh at them then, or satirise the follies of a being who
is never to be allowed to act freely from the light of her own reason, is as
absurd as cruel; for, that they who are taught blindly to obey authority, will
endeavour cunningly to elude it, is most natural and certain. Yet let it be proved that they ought to obey man
implicitly, and I shall immediately agree that it is woman's duty to cultivate
a fondness for dress, in order to please, and a propensity to cunning for her
own preservation. The virtues, however, which are supported by
ignorance must ever be wavering — the house built on sand could not endure a
storm. It is almost unnecessary to draw the inference. If women are to be made
virtuous by authority, which is a contradiction in terms, let them be immured
in seraglios and watched with a jealous eye. Fear not that the iron will enter
into their souls — for the souls that can bear such treatment are made of
yielding materials, just animated enough to give life to the body. Matter too soft a lasting mark to bear And best
distinguished by black, brown, or fair. The most cruel wounds will of course soon heal, and
they may still people the world, and dress to please man — all the purpose!
which certain celebrated writers have allowed that they were created to fulfil.
SECTION IV Women are supposed to possess more sensibility, and
even humanity, than men, and their strong attachments and instantaneous
emotions of compassion are given as proofs; but the clinging affection of
ignorance has seldom anything noble in it, and may mostly be resolved into
selfishness, as well as the affection of children and brutes. I have known many
weak women whose sensibility was entirely engrossed by their husbands; and as
for their humanity, it was very faint indeed, or rather it was only a transient
emotion of compassion. Humanity does not consist "in a squeamish
ear," says an eminent orator belongs to the mind as well as the
nerves." But this kind of exclusive affection, though it
degrades the individual, should not be brought forward as a proof of the
inferiority of the sex, because it is the natural consequence of confined
views; for even women of superior sense, having their attention turned to
little employments, and private plans, rarely rise to heroism, unless when
spurred on by love! and love, as an heroic passion, like genius, appears but
once in an age. therefore agree with the moralist who asserts, "that women
have seldom so much generosity as men"; and that their narrow affections,
to which justice and humanity are often sacrificed, render the sex apparently inferior,
especially, as they are commonly inspired by men; but I contend that the heart
would expand as the understanding gained strength, if women re not depressed
from their cradles. I know that a little sensibility, and great weakness,
will produce a strong sexual attachment, and that reason must cement
friendship; consequently, I allow that more friendship is to be found in the
male than the female world, and that men have a higher sense of justice. The
exclusive affections women seem indeed to resemble Cato's most unjust love for
his country. He wished to crush Carthage, not to save Rome, but to promote its
vain-glory; and, in general, it is to similar principles that humanity is
sacrificed, for genuine duties support each other. Besides, how can women be just or generous, when they
are slaves of injustice? SECTION V As the rearing of children, that is, the laying a
foundation of sound health both of body and mind in the rising generation, has
justly been insisted on as the peculiar destination of woman ignorance that
incapacitates them must be contrary to the order of things. And I contend that
their minds can take in much more, and ought to do so, or they will never
become sensible mothers. Many men attend to the breeding of horses overlook the
management of the stable, who would, strange want of sense and feeling! think
themselves degraded by paying attention to the nursery; yet, how many children
are absolutely murdered by the ignorance of women! But when they escape, and
are destroyed neither by unnatural negligence nor blind fondness, how few are
managed properly with respect to the infant mind! So that to break the spirit,
allowed to become vicious at home, a child is sent to school; and the methods
taken there, which must be taken to keep a number of children in order, scatter
the seeds of almost every vice in the soil thus forcibly torn up. I have sometimes compared the struggles of these poor
children, who ought never to have felt restraint, nor would, had they been
always held in with an even hand, to the despairing plunges of a spirited
filly, which I have seen breaking on a strand: its feet sinking deeper and
deeper in the sand every time it endeavoured to throw its rider, till at last
it sullenly submitted. I have always found horses, animals I am attached to,
very tractable when treated with humanity and steadiness, so that I doubt
whether the violent methods taken to break them, do not essentially injure
them; I am, however, certain that a child should never be thus forcibly tamed
after it had injudiciously been allowed to run wild: for every violation of
justice and reason, in the treatment of children, weakens their reason. And, so
early do they catch a character, that the base of the moral character,
experience leads me to infer, is fixed before their seventh year, the period
during which women are allowed the sole management of children. Afterwards it
too often happens that half the business of education is to correct, and very
imperfectly is it done, if done hastily, the faults, which they would never
have acquired if their mothers had had more understanding. One striking instance of the folly of women must not
be omitted. The manner in which they treat servants in the presence of
children, permitting them to suppose that they ought to wait on them, and bear
their humours. A child should always be made to receive assistance from a man
or woman as a favour; and, as the first lesson of independence, they should
practically be taught, by the example of their mother, not to require that
personal attendance, which it is an insult to humanity to require, when in
health; and instead of being led to assume airs of consequence, a sense of
their own weakness should first make them feel the natural equality of man.
Yet, how frequently have I indignantly heard servants imperiously called to put
children to bed, and sent away again and again, because master or miss hung
about mamma, to stay a little longer. Thus made slavishly to attend the little
idol, all those most disgusting humours were exhibited which characterise a
spoiled child. In short, speaking of the majority of mothers, they
leave their children entirely to the care of servants; or, because they are
their children, treat them as if they were little demi-gods though I have
always observed, that the women who thus idolise their children, seldom show
common humanity to servants, or feel the least tenderness for any children but
their own. It is, however, these exclusive affections, and an
individual manner of seeing things, produced by ignorance, which keep women for
ever at a stand, with respect to improvement, and make many of them dedicate
their lives to their children only to weaken their bodies and spoil their
tempers, frustrating also any plan of education that a more rational father may
adopt. for unless a mother concur, the father who restrains will ever be
considered as a tyrant. But, fulfilling the duties of a mother, a woman with
a sound constitution, may still keep her person scrupulously neat, and assist
to maintain her family, if necessary, or by reading and conversation with both
sexes, indiscriminately, improve her mind. For Nature has so wisely ordered
things, that did women suckle their children, they would preserve their own
health and there would be such an interval between the birth of each child,
that we should seldom see a houseful of babes. And did they pursue a plan of
conduct, and not waste their time in following the fashionable vagaries of
dress, the management of their household and children need not shut them out
from literature, or prevent their attaching themselves to a science with that
steady eye which strengthens the mind, or practising one of the fine arts that
cultivate the taste. But, visiting to display finery, card-playing, and
balls, not to mention the idle bustle of morning trifling, draw women from
their duty to render them insignificant, to render them pleasing, according to
the present acceptation of the word, to every man but their husband. For a
round of pleasures in which the affections are not exercised, cannot be said to
improve the understanding, though it be erroneously called seeing the world.
yet the heart is rendered cold and averse to duty, by such a senseless
intercourse, which becomes necessary from habit even when it has ceased to
amuse. But, we shall not see women affectionate till more
equality be established in society, till ranks are confounded and women freed,
neither shall we see that dignified domestic happiness, the simple grandeur of
which cannot be relished by ignorant or vitiated minds; nor will the important
task of education ever be properly begun till the person of a woman is no
longer preferred to her mind. For it would be as wise to expect corn from
tares, or figs from thistles, as that a foolish ignorant woman should be a good
mother. SECTION VI It is not necessary to inform the sagacious reader,
now I enter on my concluding reflections, that the discussion of this subject
merely consists in opening a few simple principles, and clearing away the
rubbish which obscured them. But, as all readers are not sagacious, I must be
allowed to add some explanatory remarks to bring the subject home to reason — to
that sluggish reason, which supinely takes opinions on trust, and obstinately
supports them to spare itself the labour of thinking. Moralists have unanimously agreed, that unless virtue
be nursed by liberty, it will never attain due strength — and what they say of
man I extend to mankind, insisting that in all cases morals must be fixed on
immutable principles; and, that the being cannot be termed rational or
virtuous, who obeys any authority, but that of reason. To render women truly useful members of society, I
argue that they should be led, by having their understandings cultivated on a
large scale, to acquire a rational affection for their country, founded on
knowledge, because it is obvious that we are little interested about what we do
not understand. And to render this general knowledge of due importance, I have
endeavoured to show that private duties are never properly fulfilled unless the
understanding enlarges the heart; and that public virtue is only an aggregate
of private. But, the distinctions established in society undermine both, by
beating out the solid gold of virtue, till it becomes only the tinsel-covering
of vice; for whilst wealth renders a man more respectable than virtue, wealth
will be sought before virtue; and, whilst women's persons are caressed, when a
childish simper shows an absence of mind — the mind will lie fallow. Yet, true
voluptuousness must proceed from the mind — for what can equal the sensations
produced by mutual affection, supported by mutual respect? What are the cold,
or feverish caresses of appetite, but sin embracing death, compared with the
modest overflowings of a pure heart and exalted imagination? Yes, let me tell
the libertine of fancy when he despises understanding in woman-that the mind,
which he disregards, gives life to the enthusiastic affection from which
rapture, short-lived as it is, alone can flow! And, that, without virtue, a sexual
attachment must expire like a tallow candle in the socket, creating intolerable
disgust. To prove this, I need only observe, that men who have wasted great
part of their lives with women, and with whom they have sought for pleasure
with eager thirst, entertain the meanest opinion of the sex. Virtue, true
refiner of joy! — if foolish men were to fright thee from earth, in order to
give loose to all their appetites without a check — some sensual wight of taste
would scale the heavens to invite thee back, to give a zest to pleasure! That women at present are by ignorance rendered
vicious, is, I think, not to be disputed; and, that salutary effects tending to
improve mankind might be expected from a REVOLUTION in female manners, appears,
at least, with a face of probability, to rise out of the observation. For as
marriage has been termed the parent of those endearing charities which draw man
from the brutal herd, the corrupting intercourse that wealth, idleness, and
folly, produce between the sexes, is more universally injurious to morality
than all the other vices of mankind collectively considered. To adulterous lust
the most sacred duties are sacrificed, because before marriage, men, by a
promiscuous intimacy with women, learned to consider love as a selfish
gratification — learned to separate it not only from esteem, but from the
affection merely built on habit which mixes a little humanity with it. Justice
and friendship are also set at defiance, and that purity of taste is vitiated
which would naturally lead a man to relish an artless display of affection
rather than affected airs. But that noble simplicity of affection, which dares
to appear unadorned, has few attractions for the libertine, though it be the
charm, which by cementing the matrimonial tie, secures to the pledges of a
warmer passion the necessary parental attention; for children will never be
properly educated till friendship subsists between parents. Virtue flies from a
house divided against itself — and a whole legion of devils take up their residence
there. The affection of husbands and wives cannot be pure
when they have so few sentiments in common, and when so little confidence is
established at home, as must be the case when their pursuits are so different.
That intimacy from which tenderness should flow, will not, cannot subsist
between the vicious. Contending, therefore, that the sexual distinction
which men have so warmly insisted upon, is arbitrary, I have dwelt on an
observation, that several sensible men, with whom I have conversed on the
subject, allowed to be well founded; and it is simply this, that the little
chastity to be found amongst men, and consequent disregard of modesty, tend to
degrade both sexes; and further, that the modesty of women, characterised as
such, will often be only the artful veil of wantonness instead of being the
natural reflection of purity, till modesty be universally respected. From the tyranny of man, I firmly believe, the
greater number of female follies proceed; and the cunning, which I allow makes
at present a part of their character, I likewise have repeatedly endeavoured to
prove, is produced by oppression. Were not dissenters, for instance, a class of people,
with strict truth, characterised as cunning? And may I not lay some stress on
this fact to prove, that when any power but reason curbs the free spirit of
man, dissimulation is practised, and the various shifts of art are naturally
called forth? Great attention to decorum, which was carried to a degree of
scrupulosity, and all that puerile bustle about trifles and consequential
solemnity, which Butler's caricature of a dissenter brings before the
imagination, shaped their persons as well as their minds in the mould of prim
littleness. I speak collectively, for I know how many ornaments in human nature
have been enrolled amongst sectaries; yet, I assert, that the same narrow
prejudice for their sect, which women have for their families, prevailed in the
dissenting part of the community, however worthy in other respects; and also
that the same timid prudence, or headstrong efforts, often disgraced the
exertions of both. oppression thus formed many of the features of their
character perfectly to coincidence with that of the oppressed half of mankind;
for is it not notorious that dissenters were, like women, fond of deliberating
together, and asking advice of each other, till by a complication of little
contrivances, some little end was brought about? A similar attention to
preserve their reputation was conspicuous in the dissenting and female world, and
was produced by a similar cause. Asserting the rights which women in common with men
ought to contend for, I have not attempted to extenuate their faults; but to
prove them to be the natural consequence of their education and station in
society. If so, it is reasonable to suppose that they will change their
character, and correct their vices and follies, when they are allowed to be
free in a physical, moral, and civil sense.3 Let woman share the rights, and she will emulate the
virtues of man; for she must grow more perfect when emancipated, or justify the
authority that chains such a weak being to her duty. If the latter, it will be
expedient to open a fresh trade with Russia for whips: a present which a father
should always make to his son-in-law on his wedding day, that a husband may
keep his whole family in order by the same means; and without any violation of
justice reign, wielding this sceptre, sole master of his house, because he is
the only thing in it who has reason: — the divine, indefeasible earthly
sovereignty breathed into man by the Master of the universe. Allowing this
position, women have not any inherent rights to claim; and, by the same rule,
their duties vanish, for rights and duties are inseparable. Be just then, O ye men of understanding: and mark not
more severely what women do amiss than the vicious tricks of the horse or the
ass for whom ye provide provender — and allow her the privileges of ignorance,
to whom ye deny the rights of reason, or ye will be worse than Egyptian task-masters
expecting virtue where Nature has not given understanding. 1 I once
lived in the neighbourhood of one of these men, a handsome man, and saw with
surprise and indignation women, whose appearance and attendance bespoke that
rank in which females are supposed to receive a superior education, flock to
his door. 2 I am
not now alluding to that superiority of mind which leads to the creation of
ideal beauty, when life, surveyed with a penetrating eye, appears a
tragi-comedy, in which little can be seen to satisfy the heart without the help
of fancy. 3 I had
further enlarged on the advantages which might reasonably be expected to result
from an improvement in female manners, towards the general reformation of
society; but it appeared to me that such reflections would more properly close
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