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CHAPTER IV
OBSERVATIONS ON THE STATE OF DEGRADATION TO WHICH WOMAN IS REDUCED BY
VARIOUS CAUSES
That woman is naturally weak, or degraded by a
concurrence of circumstances, is, I think, clear. But this position I shall
simply contrast with a conclusion, which I have frequently heard fall from
sensible men in favour of an aristocracy: that the mass of mankind cannot be
anything, or the obsequious slaves, who patiently allow themselves to be driven
forward, would feel their own consequence, and spurn their chains. Men, they
further observe, submit everywhere to oppression, when they have only to lift
up their heads to throw off the yoke; yet, instead of asserting their
birthright, they quietly lick the dust, and say, "Let us eat and drink,
for tomorrow we die." Women, I argue from analogy, are degraded by the
same propensity to enjoy the present moment, and at last despise the freedom
which they have not sufficient virtue to struggle to attain. But I must be more
explicit. With respect to the culture of the heart, it is
unanimously allowed that sex is out of the question; but the line of subordination
in the mental powers is never to be passed over.1 Only
"absolute in loveliness," the portion of rationality granted to woman
is, indeed, very scanty; for denying her genius and judgment, it is scarcely
possible to divine what remains to characterise intellect. The stamen of immortality, if I may be allowed the
phrase is the perfectibility of human reason; for, were man created perfect, or
did a flood of knowledge break in upon him, when he arrived at maturity, that
precluded error, I should doubt whether his existence would be continued after
the dissolution of the body. But, in the present state of things, every
difficulty in morals that escapes from human discussion, and equally baffles
the investigation of profound thinking, and the lightning glance of genius, is
an argument on which I build my belief of the immortality of the soul. Reason
is, consequentially, the simple power of improvement; or, more properly
speaking, of discerning truth. Every individual is in this respect a world in
itself. More or less may be conspicuous in one being than another; but the
nature of reason must be the same in all, if it be an emanation of divinity,
the tie that connects the creature with the Creator; for, can that soul be
stamped with the heavenly image, that is not perfected by the exercise of its
own reason?2 Yet outwardly ornamented with elaborate care, and so
adorned to delight man, "that with honour he may love,"3
the soul of woman is not allowed to have this distinction, and man, ever placed
between her and reason, she is always represented as only created to see
through a gross medium, and to take things on trust. But dismissing these
fanciful theories, and considering woman as a whole, let it be what it will,
instead of a part of man, the inquiry is whether she have reason or not. If she
have, which, for a moment, I will take for granted, she was not created merely
to be the solace of man, and the sexual should not destroy the human character.
Into this error men have, probably, been led by
viewing education in a false light; not considering it as the first step to
form a being advancing gradually towards perfection;4 but only as a
preparation for life. On this sensual error, for I must call it so, has the
false system of female manners been reared, which robs the whole sex of its
dignity, and classes the brown and fair with the smiling flowers that only
adorn the land. This has ever been the language of men, and the fear of
departing from a supposed sexual character, has made even women of superior
sense adopt the same sentiments.5 Thus understanding, strictly
speaking, has been denied to woman; and instinct, sublimated into wit and
cunning, for the purposes of life, has been substituted in its stead. The power of generalizing ideas, of drawing
comprehensive conclusions from individual observations, is the only
acquirement, for an immortal being, that really deserves the name of knowledge.
Merely to observe, without endeavouring to account for anything, may (in a very
incomplete manner) serve as the common sense of life; but where is the store
laid up that is to clothe the soul when it leaves the body? This power has not only been denied to women; but
writers have insisted that it is inconsistent, with a few exceptions, with
their sexual character. Let men prove this, and I shall grant that woman only
exists for man. I must, however, previously remark, that the power of
generalizing ideas, to any great extent, is not very common amongst men or
women. But this exercise is the true cultivation of the understanding; and
everything conspires to render the cultivation of the understanding more
difficult in the female than the male world. I am naturally led by this assertion to the main
subject of the present chapter, and shall now attempt to point out some of the causes
that degrade the sex, and prevent women from generalizing their observations. I shall not go back to the remote annals of antiquity
to trace the history of woman; it is sufficient to allow that she has always
been either a slave or a despot, and to remark that each of these situations
equally retards the progress of reason. The grand source of female folly and
vice has ever appeared to me to arise from narrowness of mind; and the very
constitution of civil governments has put almost insuperable obstacles in the
way to prevent the cultivation of the female understanding; yet virtue can be
built on no other foundation. The same obstacles are thrown in the way of the
rich, and the same consequences ensue. Necessity has been proverbially termed the mother of
invention; the aphorism may be extended to virtue. It is an acquirement, and an
acquirement to which pleasure must be sacrificed; and who sacrifices pleasure
when it is within the grasp, whose mind has not been opened and strengthened by
adversity, or the pursuit of knowledge goaded on by necessity? Happy is it when
people have the cares of life to struggle with, for these struggles prevent
their becoming a prey to enervating vices, merely from idleness. But if from
their birth men and women be placed in a torrid zone, with the meridian sun of
pleasure darting directly upon them, how can they sufficiently brace their
minds to discharge the duties of life; or even to relish the affections that
carry them out of themselves? Pleasure is the business of woman's life, according
to the present modification of society; and while it continues to be so, little
can be expected from such weak beings. Inheriting in a lineal descent from the
first fair defect in nature — the sovereignty of beauty — they have, to maintain
their-power, resigned the natural rights which the exercise of reason might
have procured them, and chosen rather to be short-lived queens than labour to
obtain the sober pleasures that arise from equality. Exalted by their
inferiority (this sounds like a contradiction), they constantly demand homage
as women, though experience should teach them that the men who pride themselves
upon paying this arbitrary insolent respect to the sex, with the most
scrupulous exactness) are most inclined to tyrannise over, and despise the very
weakness they cherish. Often do they repeat Mr. Hume's sentiments, when,
comparing the French and Athenian character, he alludes to women, — "But
what is more singular in this whimsical nation, say I to the Athenians, is,'
that a frolic of yours during the saturnalia, when the slaves are served by
their masters,. is seriously continued by them through the whole year, and
through the whole course of their lives, accompanied, too, with some
circumstances, which still further augment the absurdity and ridicule. Your
sport only elevates for a few days those whom fortune has thrown down, and whom
she too, in sport, may really elevate for ever above you. But this nation
gravely exalts those whom nature has subjected to them, and whose inferiority
and infirmities are absolutely incurable. The women, though without virtue, are
their masters and sovereigns." Ah! why do women — I write with affectionate
solicitude — condescend to receive a degree of attention and respect from
strangers different from that reciprocation of civility which the dictates of
humanity and the politeness of civilisation authorise between man and man? And
why do they not discover, when "in the noon of beauty's power," that
they are treated like queens only to be deluded by hollow respect, till they
are led to resign, or not assume, their natural prerogatives? Confined, then,
in cages like the feathered race, they have nothing to do but to plume
themselves, and stalk with mock majesty from perch to perch. It is true they
are provided with food and raiment, for which they neither toil nor spin; but
health, liberty, and virtue are given in exchange. But where, amongst mankind,
has been found sufficient strength of mind to enable a being to resign these
adventitious prerogatives — one who, rising with the calm dignity of reason
above opinion, dared to be proud of the privileges inherent in man? And it is
vain to expect it whilst hereditary power chokes the affections, and nips
reason in the bud. The passions of men have thus placed women on
thrones, and till mankind become more reasonable, it is to be feared that women
will avail themselves of the power which they P attain with the least exertion,
and which is the most indisputable. They will smile — yes, they will smile, though
told that: In beauty's empire is no mean, And woman, either slave or queen, Is quickly scorned when not adored But the adoration comes first, and the scorn is not
anticipated. Louis XIV, in particular, spread factitious manners,
and caught, in a specious way, the whole nation in his toils; for, establishing
an artful chain of despotism, he made it the interest of the people at large
individually to respect his station, and support his power. And women, whom he
flattered by a puerile attention to the whole sex, obtained in his reign that
prince-like distinction so fatal to reason and virtue. A king is always a king, and a woman always a woman.6
His authority and her sex ever stand between them and rational converse. With a
lover, I grant. she should be so, and her sensibility will naturally lead her
to endeavour to excite emotion, not to gratify her vanity, but her heart. This
I do not allow to be coquetry; it is the artless impulse of nature. I only
exclaim against the sexual desire of conquest when the heart is out of the
question. This desire is not confined to women. "I have
endeavoured," says Lord Chesterfield, "to gain the hearts of twenty
women, whose persons I would not have given a fig for." The libertine who,
in a gust of passion, takes advantage of unsuspecting tenderness, is a saint
when compared with this cold-hearted rascal — for I like to use significant
words. Yet only taught to please, women are always on the watch to please, and
with true heroic ardour endeavour to gain hearts merely to resign or spurn them
when the victory is decided and conspicuous. I must descend to the minutiae of the subject. I lament that women are systematically degraded by
receiving the trivial attentions which men think it manly to pay to the sex,
when in fact, they are insultingly supporting their own superiority. It is not
condescension to bow to an inferior. So ludicrous, in fact, do these ceremonies
appear to me that I scarcely am able to govern my muscles when I see a man with
eager and serious solicitude to lift a handkerchief or shut a door, when the
lady could have done it herself, had she only moved a pace or two. A wild wish has just flown from my heart to my head,
I will not stifle it, though it may excite a horse-laugh. I do earnestly wish
to see the distinction of sex confounded in society, unless where love animates
the behaviour. For this distinction is, I am firmly persuaded, the foundation
of the weakness of character ascribed to woman; is the cause why the
understanding is neglected, whilst accomplishments are acquired with sedulous
care; and the same cause accounts for their preferring the graceful before the
heroic virtues. Mankind, including every description, wish to be
loved and respected by something, and the common herd will always take the
nearest road to the completion of their wishes. The respect paid to wealth and
beauty is the most certain and unequivocal, and, of course, will always attract
the vulgar eye of common minds. Abilities and virtues are absolutely necessary
to raise men from the middle rank of life into notice, and the natural
consequence is notorious — the middle rank contains most virtue and abilities.
Men have thus, in one station at least, an opportunity of exerting themselves
with dignity, and of rising by the exertions which really improve a rational
creature; but the whole female sex are, till their character is formed, in the
same condition as the rich, for they are born-I now speak of a state of
civilisation — with certain sexual privileges; and whilst they are gratuitously
granted them, few will ever think of works of supererogation to obtain the
esteem of a small number of superior people. When do we hear of women who, starting out of
obscurity, boldly claim respect on account of their great abilities or daring
virtues? Where are they to be found? "To be observed, to be attended to,
to be taken notice of with sympathy, complacency, and approbation, are all the
advantages which they seek." True! my male readers will probably exclaim;
but let them, before they draw any conclusion, recollect that this was not
written originally as descriptive of women, but of the rich. In Dr. Smith's
Theory of Moral Sentiments I have found a general character of people of rank
and fortune, that, in my ; opinion, might with the greatest propriety be
applied to the female sex. I refer the sagacious reader to the whole
comparison, but must be allowed to quote a passage to enforce an argument that
I mean to insist on, as the one most conclusive against a sexual character. For
if, excepting warriors no great men of any denomination have ever appeared
amongst the nobility, may it not be fairly inferred that their local situation
swallowed up the man, and produced a character similar to that of women, who
are localised — if I may be allowed the word — by the rank they are placed in
by courtesy? Women, commonly called ladies, are not to be contradicted in
company, are not allowed to exert any manual strength; and from them the
negative virtues only are expected, when any virtues are expected — patience,
docility, good humour, and flexibility -virtues incompatible with any vigorous
exertion of intellect. Besides, by living more with each other, and being
seldom absolutely alone, they are more under the influence of sentiments than
passions. Solitude and reflection are necessary to give to wishes the force of
passions, and to enable the imagination to enlarge the object, and make it the
most desirable. The same may be said of the rich; they do not sufficiently deal
in general ideas, collected by impassioned thinking or calm investigation, to
acquire that strength of character on which great resolves are built. But hear
what an acute observer says of the great. "Do the great seem insensible of the easy price
at which they may acquire the public admiration; or do they seem to imagine
that to them, as to other men, it must be the purchase either of sweat or of
blood? By what important accomplishments is the young nobleman instructed to
support the dignity of his rank, and to render himself worthy of that
superiority over his fellow-citizens, to which the virtue of his ancestors had
raised them? Is it by knowledge, by industry, by patience, by self-denial, or
by virtue of any kind. As all his words, as all his motions are attended to, he
learns an habitual regard to every circumstance of ordinary behaviour, and
studies to perform all those small duties with the most exact propriety. As he
is conscious how much he is observed, and how much mankind are disposed to
favour all his inclinations, he acts, upon the most indifferent occasions, with
that freedom and elevation which the thought of this naturally inspires. His
air, his manner, his deportment, all mark that elegant and graceful sense of
his own superiority, which those who are born to inferior station can hardly
ever arrive at. These are the arts by which he proposes to make mankind more
easily submit to his authority, and to govern their inclinations according to
his own pleasure; and in this he is seldom disappointed. These arts, supported
by rank and pre-eminence, are, upon ordinary occasions, sufficient to govern
the world. Louis XIV during the greater part of his reign, was regarded, not
only in France, but over all Europe, as the most perfect model of a great
prince. But what were the talents and virtues by which he acquired this great
reputation? Was it by the scrupulous and inflexible justice of all his
undertakings, by the immense dangers and difficulties with which they were
attended, or by the unwearied and unrelenting application with which he pursued
them? Was it by his extensive knowledge, by his exquisite judgment, or by his
heroic valour? It was by none of these qualities. But he was, first of all, the
most powerful prince in Europe. and consequently held the highest rank among
kings; and then, says his historian, 'he surpassed all his courtiers in the
gracefulness of his shape, and the majestic beauty of his features. The sound
of his voice, noble and affecting, gained those hearts which his presence
intimidated. He had a step and a deportment which could suit only him and his
rank, and which would have been ridiculous in any other person. The
embarrassment which he occasioned to those who spoke to him, flattered that
secret satisfaction with which he felt his own superiority.' These frivolous
accomplishments, supported by his rank, and, no doubt too, by a degree of other
talents and virtues, which seems, however, not to have been much above
mediocrity, established this prince in the esteem of his own age, and have
drawn, even from posterity, a good deal of respect for his memory. Compared
with these, in his own times, and in his own presence, no other virtue, it
seems, appeared to have any merit. Knowledge, industry, valour, and beneficence
trembled, were abashed, and lost all dignity before them." Woman also thus "in herself complete," by
possessing all these frivolous accomplishments, so changes the nature of
things: That what she wills to do or say, Seems wisest, virtuousest, discreetest, best; All higher knowledge in her knowledge falls Degraded. Wisdom in discourse with her Loses discountenanced, and, like folly shows; Authority and reason on her wait. And all this is built on her loveliness! In the middle rank of life, to continue the
comparison, men, in their youth, are prepared for professions, and marriage is
not considered as the grand feature in their lives; whilst women, on the
contrary, have no other scheme to sharpen their faculties. It is not business,
extensive plans, or any of the excursive flights of ambition, that engross
their attention; no, their thoughts are not employed in rearing such noble
structures. To rise in the world, and have the liberty of running from pleasure
to pleasure, they must marry advantageously, and to this object their time is
sacrificed, and their persons often legally prostituted. A man when he enters
any profession has his eye steadily fixed on some future advantage (and the
mind gains great strength by having all its efforts directed to one point),
and, full of his business, pleasure is considered as mere relaxation; whilst
women seek for pleasure as the main purpose of existence. In fact, from the
education, which they receive from society, the love of pleasure may be said to
govern them all; but does this prove that there is a sex in souls? It would be
just as rational to declare that the courtiers in France, when a destructive
system of despotism had formed their character, were not men, because liberty,
virtue, and humanity, were sacrificed to pleasure and vanity. Fatal passions, which
have ever domineered over the whole race! The same love of pleasure, fostered by the whole
tendency of their education, gives a trifling turn to the conduct of women in
most circumstances; for instance, they are ever anxious about secondary things;
and on the watch for adventures instead of being occupied by duties. A man, when he undertakes a journey, has, in general,
the end in view; a woman thinks more of the incidental occurrences, the strange
things that may possibly occur on the road; the impression that she may make on
her fellow-travellers; and, above all, she is anxiously intent on the care of
the finery that she carries with her, which is more than ever a part of
herself, when going to figure on a new scene; when, to use an apt French turn of
expression, she is going to produce a sensation. Can dignity of mind exist with
such trivial cares? In short, women, in general, as well as the rich of
both sexes, have acquired all the follies and vices of civilisation, and missed
the useful fruit. It is not necessary for me always to premise, that I speak of
the condition of the whole sex, leaving exceptions out of the question. Their
senses are inflamed, and their understandings neglected, consequently they
become the prey of their senses, delicately termed sensibility, and are blown
about by every momentary gust of feeling. Civilised women are, therefore, so
weakened by false refinement, that, respecting morals, their condition is much
below what it would be were they left in a state nearer to nature. Ever
restless and anxious, their over-exercised sensibility not only renders them
uncomfortable themselves, but troublesome, to use a soft phrase, to others. All
their thoughts turn on things calculated to excite emotion and feeling, when
they should reason, their conduct is unstable, and their opinions are wavering
— not the wavering produced by deliberation or progressive views, but by
contradictory emotions. By fits and starts they are warm in many pursuits; yet
this warmth, never concentrated into perseverance, soon exhausts itself;
exhaled by its own heat, or meeting with some other fleeting passion, to which
reason has never given any specific gravity, neutrality ensues. Miserable
indeed, must be that being whose cultivation of mind has only tended to inflame
its passions! A distinction should be made between inflaming and strengthening
them. The passions thus pampered, whilst the judgment is left unformed, what
can be expected to ensue? Undoubtedly, a mixture of madness and folly! This observation should not be confined to the fair
sex; however, at present, I only mean to apply it to them. Novels, music, poetry, and gallantry, all tend to
make women the creatures of sensation, and their character is thus formed in
the mould of folly during the time they are acquiring accomplishments, the only
improvement they are excited, by their station in society, to acquire. This
overstretched sensibility naturally relaxes the other powers of the mind, and
prevents intellect from attaining that sovereignty which it ought to attain to
render a rational creature useful to others, and content with its own station;
for the exercise of the understanding, as life advances, is the only method
pointed out by nature to calm the passions. Satiety has a very different effect, and I have often
been forcibly struck by an emphatical description of damnation; when the spirit
is represented as continually hovering with abortive eagerness round the
defiled body, unable to enjoy anything without the organs of sense. Yet, to
their senses, are women made slaves, because it is by their sensibility that
they obtain present power. And will moralists pretend to assert that this is the
condition in which one-half of the human race should be encouraged to remain
with listless inactivity and stupid acquiescence? Kind instructors! what were
we created for? To remain, it may be said, innocent; they mean in a state of
childhood We might as well never have been born, unless it were necessary that
we should be created to enable man to acquire the noble privilege of reason,
the power of discerning good from evil, whilst we lie down in the dust from
whence we were taken, never to rise again. It would be an endless task to trace the variety of
meannesses, cares, and sorrows, into which women are plunged by the prevailing
opinion, that they were created rather to feel than reason, and that all the
power they obtain must be obtained by their charms and weakness: Fine by defect, and amiably weak! And, made by this amiable weakness entirely
dependent, excepting what they gain by illicit sway, on man, not only for
protection, but advice, is it surprising that, neglecting the duties that
reason alone points out, and shrinking from trials calculated to strengthen
their minds, they only exert themselves to give their defects a graceful
covering, which may serve to heighten their charms in the eye of the
voluptuary, though it sink them below the scale of moral excellence. Fragile in every sense of the word, they are obliged
to look up to man for every comfort. In the most trifling danger they cling to
their support, with parasitical tenacity, piteously demanding succour; and
their natural protector extends his arm, or lifts up his voice, to guard the
lovely trembler — from what? Perhaps the frown of an old cow, or the jump of a
mouse; a rat would be a serious danger. In the name of reason, and even common
sense, what can save such beings from contempt; even though they be soft and
fair. These fears, when not affected, may produce some
pretty attitudes; but they show a degree of imbecility which degrades a
rational creature in a way women are not aware of — for love and esteem are
very distinct things. I am fully persuaded that we should hear of none of
these infantine airs, if girls were allowed to take sufficient exercise, and
not confined in close rooms till their muscles are relaxed, and their powers of
digestion destroyed. To carry the remark still further, if fear in girls,
instead of being cherished, perhaps, created, were treated in the same manner
as cowardice in boys, we should quickly see women with more dignified aspects.
It is true, they could not then with equal propriety be termed the sweet
flowers that smile in the walk of man; but they would be more respectable
members of society, and discharge the important duties of life by the light of
their own reason. "Educate women like men," says Rousseau, "and
the more they resemble our sex the less power will they have over us."
This is the very point I aim at. I do not wish them to have power over men; but
over themselves. In the same strain have I heard men argue against
instructing the poor; for many are the forms that aristocracy assumes. "Teach
them to read and write," say they, "and you take them out of the
station assigned them by nature." An eloquent Frenchman has answered them,
I will borrow his sentiments. "But they know not, when they make man a
brute, that they may expect every instant to see him transformed into a
ferocious beast. Without knowledge there can be no morality." Ignorance is a frail base for virtue! Yet, that it is
the condition for which woman was organised, has been insisted upon by the
writers who have most vehemently argued in favour of the superiority of man; a
superiority not in degree, but offence; though, to soften the argument, they
have laboured to prove, with chivalrous generosity, that the sexes ought not to
be compared; man was made to reason, woman to feel: and that together, flesh
and spirit, they make the most perfect whole, by blending happily reason and
sensibility into one character. And what is sensibility? "Quickness of
sensation, quickness of perception, delicacy." Thus is it defined by Dr.
Johnson. and the definition gives me no other idea than of the most exquisitely
polished instinct. I discern not a trace of the image of God in either
sensation or matter. Refined seventy times seven they are still material;
intellect dwells not there; nor will fire ever make lead gold! I come round to my old argument: if woman be allowed
to have an immortal soul, she must have, as the employment of life, an
understanding to improve. And when, to render the present state more complete,
though everything proves it to be but a fraction of a mighty sum, she is
incited by present gratification to forget her grand destination, nature is
counteracted, or she was born only to procreate and rot. Or, granting brutes of
every description a soul, though not a reasonable one the exercise of instinct
and sensibility may be the step which they are to take, in this life, towards
the attainment of reason in the next; so that through all eternity they will
lag behind man, who, why we cannot tell, had the power given him of attaining
reason in his first mode of existence. When I treat of the peculiar duties of women, as I
should treat of the peculiar duties of a citizen or father, it will be found
that I do not mean to insinuate that they should be taken out of their
families, speaking of the majority. "He that hath wife and children,"
says Lord Bacon, "hath given hostages to fortune; for they are impediments
to great enterprises, either of virtue or mischief. Certainly the best works,
and of greatest merit for the public, have proceeded from the unmarried or
childless men." I say the same of women. But the welfare of society is not
built on extraordinary exertions; and were it more reasonably organised, there
would be still less need of great abilities, or heroic virtues. In the regulation of a family, in the education of
children, understanding, in an unsophisticated sense, is particularly required-strength
both of body and mind; yet the men who, by their writings, have most earnestly
laboured to domesticate women, have endeavoured, by arguments dictated by a
gross appetite, which satiety had rendered fastidious, to weaken their bodies
and cramp their minds. But, if even by these sinister methods they really
persuaded women, by working on their feelings, to stay at home, and fulfil the
duties of a mother and mistress of a family, I should cautiously oppose
opinions that led women to right conduct, by prevailing on them to make the
discharge of such important duties the main business of life, though reason
were insulted. Yet, and I appeal to experience, if by neglecting the
understanding they be as much, nay, more detached from these domestic employments,
than they could be by the most serious intellectual pursuit, though it may be
observed, that the mass of mankind will never vigorously pursue an intellectual
object,7 I may be allowed to infer that reason is absolutely
necessary to enable a woman to perform any duty properly, and I must again
repeat, that sensibility is not reason. The comparison with the rich still occurs to me; for,
when men neglect the duties of humanity, women will follow their example; a
common stream hurries them both along with thoughtless celerity. Riches and
honours prevent a man from enlarging his understanding. and enervate all his
powers by reversing the order of nature, which has ever made true pleasure the
reward of labour. Pleasure enervating pleasure — is, likewise, within women's
reach without earning it. But, till hereditary possessions are spread abroad,
how can we expect men to be proud of virtue? And, till they are, women will
govern them by the most direct means, neglecting their dull domestic duties to
catch the pleasure that sits lightly on the wing of time. "The power of the woman," says some author,
"is her sensibility"; and men, not aware of the consequence, do all
they can to make this power swallow up every other. Those who constantly employ
their sensibility will have most; for example, poets, painters, and composers.8
Yet, when the sensibility is thus increased at the expense of reason, and even
the imagination, why do philosophical men complain of their fickleness? The
sexual attention of man particularly acts on female sensibility, and this
sympathy has been exercised from their youth up. A husband cannot long pay
those attentions with the passion necessary to excite lively emotions, and the
heart, accustomed to lively emotions, turns to a new lover, or pines in secret,
the prey of virtue or prudence. I mean when the heart has really been rendered
susceptible, and the taste formed; for I am apt to conclude, from what I have
seen in fashionable life, that vanity is oftener fostered than sensibility by the
mode of education, and the intercourse between the sexes, which I have
reprobated; and that coquetry more frequently proceeds from vanity than from
that inconstancy which overstrained sensibility naturally produces. Another argument that has had great weight with me
must, I think, have some force with every considerate benevolent heart. Girls
who have been thus weakly educated are often cruelly left by their parents
without any provision, and, of course, are dependent on not only the reason,
but the bounty of their brothers. These brothers are, to view the fairest side
of the question, good sort of men, and give as a favour what children of the
same parents had an equal right to. In this equivocal humiliating situation a
docile female may remain some time with a tolerable degree of comfort. But when
the brother marries — a probable circumstance-from being considered as the
mistress of the family, she is viewed with averted looks as an intruder, an
unnecessary burden on the benevolence of the master of the house and his new
partner. Who can recount the misery which many unfortunate
beings, whose minds and bodies are equally weak, suffer in such
situations-unable to work, and ashamed to beg? The wife, a cold-hearted,
narrow-minded woman — and this is not an unfair supposition, for the present
mode of education does not tend to enlarge the heart any more than the
understanding — is jealous of the little kindness which her husband shows to
his relations; and her sensibility not rising to humanity, she is displeased at
seeing the property of her children lavished on an helpless sister. These are matters of fact, which have come under my
eye again and again. The consequence is obvious; the wife has recourse to
cunning to undermine the habitual affection which she is afraid openly to
oppose; and neither tears nor caresses are spared till the spy is worked out of
her home, and thrown on the world, unprepared for its difficulties; or sent, as
a great effort of generosity, or from some regard to propriety, with a small
stipend, and an uncultivated mind, into joyless solitude. These two women may be much upon a par with respect
to reason and humanity, and, changing situations, might have acted just the
same selfish part; but had they been differently educated, the case would also
have been very different. The wife would not have had that sensibility, of
which self is the centre, and reason might have taught her not to expect, and
not even to be flattered by, the affection of her husband, led him to violate
prior duties. She would wish not to him merely because he loved her, but on
account of his virtues; and the sister might have been able to struggle for
herself instead of eating the bitter bread of dependence. I am, indeed, persuaded that the heart, as well as
the understanding, is opened by cultivation, and by-which may not appear so
clear-strengthening the organs. I am not now talking of momentary flashes of
sensibility, but of affections. And, perhaps, in the education of both sexes,
the most difficult task is so to adjust instruction as not to narrow the
understanding, whilst the heart is warmed by the generous juices of spring,
just raised by the electric fermentation of the season; nor to dry up the
feelings by employing the mind in investigations remote from life. With respect to women, when they receive a careful
education, they are either made fine ladies, brimful of sensibility, and
teeming with capricious fancies, or mere notable women. The latter are often
friendly, honest creatures, and have a shrewd kind of good sense, joined with
worldly prudence, that often render them more useful members of society than
the fine sentimental lady, though they possess neither greatness of mind nor
taste. The intellectual world is shut against them. Take them out of their family
or neighbourhood, and they stand still; the mind finding no employment, for
literature affords a fund of amusement which they have never sought to relish,
but frequently to despise. The sentiments and taste of more cultivated minds
appear ridiculous, even in those whom chance and family connections have led
them to love; but in mere acquaintance they think it all affectation. A man of sense can only love such a woman on account
of her sex, and respect her because she is a trusty servant. He lets her, to
preserve his own peace, scold the servants, and go to church in clothes made of
the very best materials. A man of her own size of understanding would probably
not agree as well with her, for he might wish to encroach on her prerogative,
and manage some domestic concerns himself; yet women, whose minds are not
enlarged by cultivation, or the natural selfishness of sensibility by
reflection, are very unfit to manage a family, for, by an undue stretch of
power, they are always tyrannising to support a superiority that only rests on
the arbitrary distinction of fortune. The evil is sometimes more serious, and
domestics are deprived of innocent indulgences, and made to work beyond their
strength, in order to enable the notable woman to keep a better table, and
outshine her neighbours in finery and parade. If she attend to her children, it
is in general to dress them in a costly manner; and whether this attention
arise from vanity or fondness, it is equally pernicious. Besides, how many women of this description pass
their days, or at least their evenings, discontentedly. Their husbands
acknowledge that they are good managers and chaste wives, but leave home to
seek for more agreeable — may I be allowed to use a significant French word — piquant
society; and the patient drudge, who fulfils her task like a blind horse in a
mill, is defrauded of her just reward, for the wages due to her are the
caresses of her husband; and women who have so few resources in themselves, do
not very patiently bear this privation of a natural right. A fine lady, on the contrary, has been taught to look
down with contempt on the vulgar employments of life, though she has only been
incited to acquire accomplishments that rise a degree above sense; for even
corporeal accomplishments cannot be acquired with any degree of precision
unless the understanding has been strengthened by exercise. Without a
foundation of principles taste is superficial; grace must arise from something
deeper than imitation. The imagination, however, is heated, and the feelings
rendered fastidious, if not sophisticated, or a counterpoise of judgment is not
acquired when the heart still remains artless, though it becomes too tender. These women are often amiable, and their hearts are
really more sensible to general benevolence, more alive to the sentiments that
civilise life, than the square-elbowed family drudge; but, wanting a due
proportion of reflection and self-government, they only inspire love, and are
the mistresses of their husbands, whilst they have any hold on their
affections, and the Platonic friends of his male acquaintance. These are the
fair defects in Nature; the women who appear to be created not to enjoy the
fellowship of man, but to save him from sinking into absolute brutality, by
rubbing off the rough angles of his character, and by playful dalliance to give
some dignity to the appetite that draws him to them. Gracious Creator of the
whole human race! hast Thou created such a being as woman, who can trace Thy
wisdom in Thy works, and feel that Thou alone art by Thy nature exalted above
her, for no better purpose? Can she believe that she was only made to submit to
man, her equal — a being who, like her, was sent into the world to acquire
virtue? Can she consent to be occupied merely to please him — merely to adorn
the earth — when her soul is capable of rising to Thee? And can she rest
supinely dependent on man for reason, when she ought to mount with him the
arduous steeps of knowledge? Yet if love be the supreme good, let woman be only
educated to inspire it, and let every charm be polished to intoxicate the
senses; but if they be moral beings, let them have a chance to become
intelligent; and let love to man be only a part of that glowing flame of
universal love, which, after encircling humanity, mounts in grateful incense to
God. To fulfil domestic duties much resolution is
necessary, and a serious kind of perseverance that requires a more firm support
than emotions, however lively and true to nature. To give an example of order,
the soul of virtue, some austerity of behaviour must be adopted, scarcely to be
expected from a being who, from its infancy, has been made the weathercock of
its own sensations. Whoever rationally means to be useful must have a plan of
conduct; and in the discharge of the simplest duty, we are often obliged to act
contrary to the present impulse of tenderness or compassion. Severity is
frequently the most certain as well as the most sublime proof of affection; and
the want of this power over the feelings, and of that lofty, dignified
affection which makes a person prefer the future good of the beloved object to
a present gratification, is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their
children, and-has made it questionable whether negligence or indulgence be most
hurtful; but I am inclined to think that the latter has done most harm. Mankind seem to agree that children should be left
under the management of women during their childhood. Now, from all the
observation that I have been able to make, women of sensibility are the most
unfit for this task, because they will infallibly, carried away by their
feelings, spoil a child's temper. The management of the temper, the first, and
most important branch of education, requires the sober steady eye of reason; a
plan of conduct equally distant from tyranny and indulgence: yet these are the
extremes that people of sensibility alternately fall into; always shooting
beyond the mark. I have followed this train of reasoning much further, till I
have concluded, that a person of genius is the most improper person to be
employed in education, public or private. Minds of this rare species see things
too much in masses, and seldom, if ever, have a good temper. That habitual
cheerfulness, termed good humour, is perhaps, as seldom united with great
mental powers, as with strong feelings. And those people who follow, with
interest and admiration, the flights of genius; or, with cooler approbation
suck in the instruction which has been elaborately prepared for them by the
profound thinker, ought not to be disgusted, if they find the former choleric,
and the latter morose; because liveliness of fancy, and a tenacious
comprehension of mind, are scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which
leads a man, at least, to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others,
instead of roughly confronting them. But, treating of education or manners, minds of a
superior class are not to be considered, they may be left to chance; it is the
multitude, with moderate abilities, who call for instruction, and catch the
colour of the atmosphere they breathe. This respectable concourse, I contend,
men and women, should not have their sensations heightened in the hot-bed of
luxurious indolence, at the expense of their understanding; for, unless there
be a ballast of understanding, they will never become either virtuous or free:
an aristocracy, founded on property or sterling talents, will ever sweep before
it the alternately timid and ferocious slaves of feeling. Numberless are the arguments, to take another view of
the subject, brought forward with a show of reason, because supposed to be
deduced from nature, that men have used morally and physically, to degrade the
sex. I must notice a few. The female understanding has often been spoken of
with contempt, as arriving sooner at maturity than the male. I shall not answer
this argument by alluding to the early proofs of reason, as well as genius, in
Cowley, Milton, and Pope,9 but only appeal to experience to decide
whether young men, who are early introduced into company (and examples now
abound), do not acquire the same precocity. So notorious is this fact, that the
bare mentioning of it must bring before people, who at all mix in the world,
the idea of a number of swaggering apes of men, whose understandings are narrowed
by being brought into the society of men when they ought to have been spinning
a top or twirling a hoop. It has also been asserted, by some naturalists, that
men do not attain their full growth and strength till thirty; but that women
arrive at maturity by twenty. I apprehend that they reason on false ground, led
astray by the male prejudice, which deems beauty the perfection of woman — mere
beauty of features 'and complexion, the vulgar acceptation of the word, whilst
male beauty is allowed to have some connection with the mind. Strength of body,
and that character of countenance which the French term a physionomic, women do
not acquire before thirty, any more than men. The little artless tricks of
children, it is true, are particularly pleasing and attractive; yet, when the
pretty freshness of youth is worn off, these artless graces become studied
airs, and disgust every person of taste. In the countenance of girls we only
look for vivacity and bashful modesty; but, the spring tide of life over, we look
for soberer sense in the face, and for traces of passion, instead of the
dimples of animal spirits; expecting to see individuality of character, the
only fastener of the affections.10 We then wish to converse, not to
fondle; to give scope to our imaginations as well as to the sensations of our
hearts. At twenty the beauty of both sexes is equal; but the
libertinism of man leads him to make the distinction, and superannuated
coquettes are commonly of the same opinion; for when they can no longer inspire
love, they pay for the vigour and vivacity of youth. The French, who admit more
of mind into their notions of beauty, give the preference to women of thirty. I
mean to say that they allow women to be in their most perfect state, when
vivacity gives place to reason, and to that majestic seriousness of character,
which marks maturity or the resting point. In youth, till twenty, the body
shoots out, till thirty, the solids are attaining a degree of density; and the
flexible muscles, growing daily more rigid, give character to the countenance;
that is, they trace the operations of the mind with the iron pen of fate, and
tell us not only what powers are within, hut how they have been employed. It is proper to observe, that animals who arrive
slowly at maturity, are the longest lived, and of the noblest species. Men
cannot, however, claim any natural superiority from the grandeur of longevity;
for in this respect nature has not distinguished the male. Polygamy is another physical degradation; and a
plausible argument for a custom, that blasts every domestic virtue, is drawn
from the well-attested fact, that in the countries where it is established,
more females are born than males. This appears to be an indication of nature,
and to nature, apparently reasonable speculations must yield. A further
conclusion obviously presented itself; if polygamy be necessary, woman must be
inferior to man, and made for him. With respect to the formation of the fetus in the
womb, we are very ignorant; but it appears to me probable, that an accidental
physical cause may account for this phenomenon, and prove it not to be a law of
nature. I have met with some pertinent observations on the subject in Foster's
Account of the Isles of the South Sea, that will explain my meaning. After observing
that of the two sexes amongst animals, the most vigorous and hottest
constitution always prevails, and produces its kind; he adds, — "If this
be applied to the inhabitants of Africa, it is evident that the men there,
accustomed to polygamy, are enervated by the use of so many women, and
therefore less vigorous; the women, on the contrary, are of a hotter
constitution, not only on account of their more irritable nerves, more sensible
organisation, and more lively fancy; but likewise because they are deprived in
their matrimony of that share of physical love which, in a monogamous
condition, would all be theirs; and thus, for the above reasons, the generality
of the children are born females. "In the greater part of Europe it has been
proved by the most accurate lists of mortality, that the proportion of men to
women is nearly equal, or, if any difference takes place, the males born are
more numerous, in the proportion of 105 to 100." The necessity of polygamy, therefore, does not
appear; yet when a man seduces a woman, it should, I think, be termed a
left-handed marriage, and the man should be legally obliged to maintain the
woman and her children, unless adultery, a natural divorcement, abrogated the
law. And this law should remain in force as long as the weakness of women
caused the word seduction to be used as an excuse for their frailty and want of
principle; nay, while they depend on man for a subsistence, instead of earning
it by the exertion of their own hands or heads. But these women should not, in
the full meaning of the relationship, be termed wives, or the very purpose of
marriage would be subverted, and all those endearing charities that flow from
personal fidelity, and give a sanctity to the tie, when neither love nor
friendship unites the hearts, would melt into selfishness. The woman who is
faithful to the father of her children demands respect, and should not be
treated like a prostitute; though I readily grant that if it be necessary for a
man and woman to live together in order to bring up their offspring, nature
never intended that a man should have more than one wife. Still, highly as I respect marriage, as the
foundation of almost every social virtue, I cannot avoid feeling the most
lively compassion for those unfortunate females who are broken off from
society, and by one error torn from all those affections and relationships that
improve the heart and mind. It does not frequently even deserve the name of
error; for many innocent girls become the dupes of a sincere, affectionate heart,
and still more are, as it may emphatically be termed, ruined before they know
the difference between virtue and vice, and thus prepared by their education
for infamy, they become infamous. Asylums and Magdalens are not the proper
remedies for these abuses. It is justice, not charity, that is wanting in the
world! A woman who has lost her honour imagines that she
cannot fall lower, and as for recovering her former station, it is impossible;
no exertion can wash this stain away. Losing, thus every spur, and having no
other means of support, prostitution becomes her only refuge, and the character
is quickly depraved by circumstances over which the poor wretch has little
power, unless she possesses an uncommon portion of sense and loftiness of
spirit. Necessity never makes prostitution the business of men's lives; though
numberless are the women who are thus rendered systematically vicious. This,
however, arises in a great degree from the state of idleness in which women are
educated, who are always taught to look up to man for a maintenance, and to
consider their persons as the proper return for his exertions to support them.
Meretricious airs, and the whole science of wantonness, have then a more
powerful stimulus than either appetite or vanity; and this remark gives force
to the prevailing opinion, that with chastity all is lost that is respectable
in woman. Her character depends on the observance of one virtue, though the
only passion fostered in her heart is love. Nay, the honour of a woman is not
made even to depend on her will. When Richardson11 makes Clarissa tell
Lovelace that he had robbed her of her honour, he must have had strange notions
of honour and virtue. For, miserable beyond all names of misery is the
condition of a being, who could be degraded without its own consent! This
excess of strictness I have heard vindicated as a salutary error. I shall
answer in the words of have more Leibnitz — "Errors are often useful; but
it is commonly to remedy other errors." Most of the evils of life arise from a desire of
present enjoyment that outruns itself. The obedience required of women in the
marriage state comes under this description; the mind, naturally weakened by
depending on authority, never exerts its own powers, and the obedient wife is
thus rendered a weak indolent mother. Or, supposing that this is not always the
consequence, a future state of existence is scarcely taken into the reckoning
when only negative virtues are cultivated. For, in treating of morals,
particularly when women are alluded to, writers have too often considered
virtue in a very limited sense, and made the foundation of it solely worldly
utility; nay, a still more fragile base has been given to this stupendous
fabric, and the wayward fluctuating feelings of men have been made the standard
of virtue. Yes, virtue as well as religion has been subjected to the decisions
of taste. It would almost provoke a smile of contempt, if the
vain absurdities of man did not strike us on all sides, to observe how eager
men are to degrade the sex from whom they pretend to receive the chief pleasure
of life; and I have frequently with full conviction retorted Pope's sarcasm on
them; or, to speak explicitly, it has appeared to me applicable to the whole
human race. A love of pleasure or sway seems to divide mankind, and the husband
who lords it in his little harem thinks only of his pleasure or his
convenience. To such lengths, indeed, does an intemperate love of pleasure
carry some prudent men, or worn-out libertines, who marry to have a safe bedfellow,
that they seduce their own wives. Hymen banishes modesty, and chaste love takes
its flight. Love, considered as an animal appetite, cannot long
feed on itself without expiring. And this extinction in its own flame may be
termed the violent death of love. But the wife, who has thus been rendered
licentious, will probably endeavour to fill the void left by the loss of her
husband's attentions; for she cannot contentedly become merely an upper servant
after having been treated like a goddess. She is still handsome, and, instead
of transferring her fondness to her children, she only dreams of enjoying the
sunshine of life. Besides, there are many husbands so devoid of sense and
parental affection that, during the first effervescence of voluptuous fondness,
they refuse to let their wives suckle their children. They are only to dress
and live to please them, and love, even innocent love, soon sinks into
lasciviousness when the exercise of a duty is sacrificed to its indulgence. Personal attachment is a very happy foundation for
friendship; yet, when even two virtuous young people marry, it would perhaps be
happy if some circumstances checked their passion; if the recollection of some
prior attachment, or disappointed affection, made it on one side, at least,
rather a match founded on esteem. In that case they would look beyond the
present moment, and try to render the whole of life respectable, by forming a
plan to regulate a friendship which only death ought to dissolve. Friendship is a serious affection; the most sublime
of all affections, because it is founded on principle, and cemented by time.
The very reverse may be said of love. In a great degree, love and friendship
cannot subsist in the same bosom; even when inspired by different objects they
weaken or destroy each other, and for the same object can only be felt in
succession. The vain fears and fond jealousies, the winds which fan the flame
of love, when judiciously or artfully tempered, are both incompatible with the
tender confidence and sincere respect of friendship. Love, such as the glowing pen of genius has traced,
exists not on earth, or only resides in those exalted, fervid imaginations that
have sketched such dangerous pictures. Dangerous, because they not only afford
a plausible excuse to the voluptuary, who disguises sheer sensuality under a
sentimental veil; but as they spread affectation, and take from the dignity of
virtue. Virtue, as the very word imports, should have an appearance of
seriousness, if not of austerity; and to endeavour to trick her out in the garb
of pleasure, because the epithet has been used as another name for beauty, is
to exalt her on a quicksand; a most insidious attempt to hasten her fall by
apparent respect. Virtue and pleasure are not, in fact, so nearly allied in
this life as some eloquent writers have laboured to prove. Pleasure prepares
the fading wreath, and mixes the intoxicating cup; but the fruit which virtue
gives is the recompense of toil, and, gradually seen as it ripens, only affords
calm satisfaction; nay, appearing to be the result of the natural tendency of
things, it is scarcely observed. Bread, the common food of life, seldom thought
of as a blessing, supports the constitution and preserves health; still feasts
delight the heart of man, though disease and even death lurk in the cup or
dainty that elevates the spirits or tickles the palate. The lively heated
imagination likewise, to apply the comparison, draws the picture of love, as it
draws every other picture, with those glowing colours, which the daring hand
will steal from the rainbow, that is directed by a mind, condemned in a world
like this, to prove its noble origin by panting after unattainable perfection,
ever pursuing what it acknowledges to be a fleeting dream. An imagination of
this vigorous cast can give existence to insubstantial forms, and stability to
the shadowy reveries which the mind naturally falls into when realities are
found vapid. It can then depict love with celestial charms, and dote on the
grand ideal object — it can imagine a degree of mutual affection that shall
refine the soul, and not expire when it has served as a "scale to
heavenly"; and, like devotion, make it absorb every meaner affection and
desire. In each other's arms, as in a temple, with its summit lost in the clouds,
the world is to be shut out, and every thought and wish that do not nurture
pure affection and permanent virtue. Permanent virtue! alas! Rousseau,
respectable visionary! thy paradise would soon be violated by the entrance of
some unexpected guest. Like Milton's it would only contain angels, or men sunk
below the dignity of rational creatures. Happiness is not material, it cannot
be seen or felt! Yet the eager pursuit of the good, which everyone shapes to
his own fancy, proclaims man the lord of this lower world, and to be an
intelligential creature, who is not to receive but acquire happiness. They,
therefore, who complain of the delusions of passion, do not recollect that they
are exclaiming against a strong proof of the immortality of the soul. But leaving superior minds to correct themselves, and
pay dearly for their experience, it is necessary to observe, that it is not
against strong, persevering passions, but romantic wavering feelings, that I
wish to guard the female heart by exercising the understanding: for these
paradisiacal reveries are oftener the effect of idleness than of a lively
fancy. Women have seldom sufficient serious employment to
silence their feelings; a round of little cares, or vain pursuits frittering
away all strength of mind and organs, they become naturally only objects of
sense. In short, the whole tenor of female education (the education of society)
tends to render the best disposed romantic and inconstant; and the remainder
vain and mean. In the present state of society this evil can scarcely be
remedied, I am afraid, in the slightest degree; should a more laudable ambition
ever gain ground they may be brought nearer to nature and reason, and become
more virtuous and useful as they grow more respectable. But, I will venture to assert that their reason will
never acquire sufficient strength to enable it to regulate their conduct,
whilst the making an appearance in the world is the first wish of the majority
of mankind. To this weak wish the natural affections, and the most useful
virtues are sacrificed. Girls marry merely to better themselves, to borrow a
significant vulgar phrase, and have such perfect power over their hearts as not
to permit themselves to fall in love till a man with a superior fortune offers.
on this subject I mean to enlarge in a future chapter; it is only necessary to
drop a hint at present, because women are so often degraded by suffering the
selfish prudence of age to chill the ardour of youth. From the same source flows an opinion that young
girls ought to dedicate great part of their time to needlework; yet, this
employment contracts their faculties more than any other that could have been
chosen for them, by confining their thoughts to their persons. Men order their
clothes to be made, and have done with the subject; women make their own
clothes, necessary or ornamental, and are continually talking about them; and
their thoughts follow their hands. It is not indeed the making of necessaries
that weakens the mind; but the frippery of dress. For, when a woman in the
lower rank of life makes her husband's and children's clothes, she does her
duty, this is her part of the family business; but when women work only to
dress better than they could otherwise afford, it is worse than sheer loss of
time. To render the poor virtuous they must be employed, and women in the
middle rank of life, did they not ape the fashions of the nobility, without
catching their ease, might employ them, whilst they themselves managed their
families, instructed their children, and exercised their own minds. Gardening,
experimental philosophy, and literature, would afford them subjects to think of
and matter for conversation, that in some degree would exercise their
understandings. The conversation of Frenchwomen, who are not so rigidly nailed
to their chairs to twist lappets, and knot ribands, is frequently superficial;
but, I contend, that it is not half so insipid as that of those Englishwomen
whose time is spent in making caps, bonnets, and the whole mischief of
trimmings, not to mention shopping, bargain-hunting, etc., etc.; and it is the
decent, prudent women, who are most degraded by these practices; for their
motive is simply vanity. The wanton who exercises her taste to render her
passion alluring, has something more in view. These observations all branch out of a general one,
which I have before made, and which cannot be too often insisted upon, for,
speaking of men, women, or professions, it will be found that the employment of
the thoughts shapes the character both generally and individually. The thoughts
of women ever hover round their persons, and is it surprising that their
persons are reckoned most valuable? Yet some degree of liberty of mind is
necessary even to form the person; and this may be one reason why some gentle
wives have so few attractions beside that of sex. Add to this, sedentary
employments render the majority of women sickly — and false notions of female
excellence make them proud of this delicacy, though it be another fetter, that
by calling the attention continually to the body, cramps the activity of the
mind. Women of quality seldom do any of the manual part of
their dress, consequently only their taste is exercised, and they acquire, by
thinking less of the finery, when the business of their toilet is over, that
ease, which seldom appears in the deportment of women, who dress merely for the
sake of dressing. In fact, the observation with respect to the middle rank, the
one in which talents thrive best, extends not to women; for those of the
superior class, by catching, at least, a smattering of literature, and
conversing more with men, on general topics, acquire more knowledge than the
women who ape their fashions and faults without sharing their advantages. With
respect to virtue, to use the word in a comprehensive sense, I have seen most
in low life. Many poor women maintain their children by the sweat of their
brow, and keep together families that the vices of the fathers would have
scattered abroad; but gentlewomen are too indolent to be actively virtuous, and
are softened rather than refined by civilisation. Indeed, the good sense which
I have met with, among the poor women who have had few advantages of education,
and yet have acted heroically, strongly confirmed me in the opinion that
trifling employments have rendered woman a trifler. Man, taking her12
body, the mind is left to rust; so that while physical love enervates man, as
being his favourite recreation, he will endeavour to enslave woman: — and, who
can tell, how many generations may be necessary to give vigour to the virtue
and talents of the freed posterity of abject slaves?13 In tracing the causes that, in my opinion, have
degraded woman, I have confined my observations to such as universally act upon
the morals and manners of the whole sex, and to me it appears clear that they
all spring from want of understanding. Whether this arise from a physical or
accidental weakness of faculties, time alone can determine; for I shall not lay
any great stress on the example of a few women14 who, from having
received a masculine education, have acquired courage and resolution; I only
contend that the men who have been placed in similar situations, have acquired
a similar character — I speak of bodies of men, and that men of genius and
talents have started out of a class, in which women have never yet been placed.
1 Into
what inconsistencies do men fall when thy argue without the compass of
principles. Women, weak women, are compared with angels; yet, a superior order
of beings should be supposed to possess more intellect than man; or, in what
does their superiority consist? In the same strain, to drop the sneer, they are
allowed to possess more goodness of heart; piety, and benevolence. I doubt the
fact, though it be courteously brought forward, unless ignorance be allowed to
be the mother of devotion; for I am firmly persuaded that, on an average, the
proportion between virtue and knowledge, is more upon a par than is commonly
granted. 2
"The brutes," says Lord Monboddo, "remain in the states in which
nature has placed them, except in so far as their natural instinct is improved
by the culture we bestow upon them." 3 Vide
Milton. 4 This
word is not strictly just, but I cannot find a better. 5
"Pleasure's the portion of th' inferior kind; But glory, virtue, Heaven for man designed." After writing these lines, how could Mrs. Barbauld
write the following ignoble comparison? "To a Lady with Some Painted
Flowers "Flowers to the fair: to you
these flowers I bring, And strive to greet you with an
earlier spring. Flowers, sweet, and gay, and
delicate like you; Emblems of innocence, and beauty too With flowers the Graces bind their
yellow hair And flowery wreaths consenting
lovers wear. Flowers, the sole luxury which
Nature knew, In Eden's pure and guiltless garden
grew. To loftier forms are rougher tasks
assign'd; The sheltering oak resists the stormy
wind, The tougher yew repels invading
foes, And the tall pine for future navies
grows; But this soft family, to cares
unknown, Were born for pleasure and delights
alone. Gay without toil, and lovely without
art, They spring to cheer the sense, and
glad the heart. Nor blush, my fair, to own you copy
these; Your best, you sweetest empire is to
please." So the men tell us; but virtue, says reason, must be
acquired by rough toils, and useful struggles with worldly cares. 6 And a
wit always a wit, might be added, for the vain fooleries of wits and beauties
to obtain attention, and make conquests, are much upon a par. 7 The
mass of mankind are rather the slaves of their appetites than of their
passions. 8 Men of
these descriptions pour sensibility into their compositions, to amalgamate the
gross materials; and moulding them with passion, give to the inert body a soul;
but in woman's imagination, love alone concentrates these ethereal beams. 9 Many
other names might be added. 10 The
strength of an affection is, generally, in the same proportion as the character
of the species in the object beloved, lost in that of the individual. 11 Dr.
Young supports the same opinion, in his plays, when he talks of the misfortune
that shunned the light of day. 12
"I take her body," says Ranger. 13
"Supposing that women are voluntary slaves -slavery of any kind is
unfavourable to human happiness and improvement." — Knox's Essays. 14
Sappho, Eloisa, Mrs. Macauly, the Empress of Russia, Madame d'Eon, etc. These,
and many more, may be reckoned exceptions; and are not all heroes, as well as
heroines, exceptions to general rules? I wish to see women neither heroines nor
brutes; but reasonable creatures. |